Why We Love Erotic Romance

Why do we love erotic romances? I think that the answer is that there's nothing better than experiencing the closeness that comes from intimacy....so sex by itself isn't enough..there has to be more....that's why erotic romance has taken off so quickly....we want the intimacy and the love that comes from wanting and being wanted...a love story that isn't afraid...that's uninhibited....that lets you feel the wonders of it all without holding back.  We are a visual people with endless imaginations that can be fueled by the written word.....let your imagination run wild....

Loving Erotic Romances

As you know, I write erotic stories of romance.....where love can never be less exciting than the act of making love.  There are so many ways to have your characters meet and eventually find there way to that place where they know they've finally found what their heart has been seeking.  It's not always an easy journey but one well worth taking and sticking with until everything they ever thought they wanted is 'only a heartbeat away'....like that song.  Anyway...keeping that thread of decent love within the story is so important to making the story more than just about the sex.  It's what motivates a writer to continue, because we all want to be loved.  Keep reading, keep loving, and if you haven't found it....keep looking....you will.

Writing about an Orgasm

Writing about an orgasmic experience should lift your reader off their sofa, chair, bed, or whatever they happen to be sitting on or laying on or even possibly standing on.  The words used and the way they are applied should make the reader feel what you're feeling when you write those words.  Now, I'm not suggesting or saying that everyone actually has an orgasm when they read about it....I'm just saying they should want to jump their partner in the near future or look for their electronically charged Mr. Happy for a happy ending.  Words are food for the mind and I like to think erotic romance authors cater to their readers with scrumptious delights that keep them coming back for more.  Eroticism is wonderful and natural.  It should never be looked upon as something to be ashamed of....but as part of the wondrous life we've been given.  I'd much rather write an erotic romance than a book about death and sadness.  And always.....an erotic romance has a happy ending...exactly the way we want to live our own lives.

Writing about Sex

I write erotic romances with a storyline...not just sex...however, the sex is extremely important to the storyline or it wouldn't be an erotic romance. No shit Sherlock...*laughing at myself*.. I love to write sex scenes...love scenes, erotic scenes because they are fun and you can let your inhibitions go...fly away....and what is left is hopefully a real turn on for those who are reading it...including the one who wrote it.  I don't know about other authors...but if I'm not feeling it...i know i need to rewrite the scene or come back to it when I'm in a better place.   I can't imagine anyone could write like that and not be there...experiencing the moment....feeling what the characters feel.  I'm very visual...so i see it, feel it, and when I'm done...I'm like...Whew.....maybe i should read that again....  

Writing is still just a hobby for me....and it may always be just that....and because of that, I lead two very separate lives.....the erotic romance writer and the woman who holds a job, loves her family, and is a bit on the nutty side but no one would ever suspect writes sex scenes.   I like having two lives...being two people....I do not have a personality disorder - really I don't.  What I do have is an escape from reality that fuels me and makes me more balanced....everyone needs something to take them away when needed and that keeps them sane.  I think we all need to find that something....whatever it may be....that keeps us safe...that keeps us excited.....and that keeps us connected to our inner self....the part that no one knows but us....the piece of us that truly makes us who we are.  Thanks for listening.....

Erotic Romance...Just What The Doctor Ordered

Erotic romance could be just what the doctor ordered to perk up your relationship with your partner(s).  Reading just before bed, instead of putting you to sleep, could wake you up - wake you up to the wanton lust that lies in wait.  You may let other things get in the way of your sexual needs, making you feel that you have lost your desire....however...you haven't.  Sometimes you just need a little jump start.  Reading an erotic romance can be just the jump start that you need...and you can read it out loud to your partner who can also benefit from the sensuality that lies within the pages of my stories as well as other authors.  Like anything else, you just have to find what works for you.  For those of you who are alone......you are never alone with a good book.  Enjoy yourself....get to know your body and lose yourself in your need for an orgasm.  There really isn't anything better when you feel you are one with another or yourself.  Whatever avenue you take to get to where you need to go....go for it.  Enjoy!

Tweet Tweet

Okay...I'm a bit obsessed with Twitter right now, but I' sure in time I'll get over it....won't I?  Anyway, I am now being followed by 11 followers....one being Emilio Estevez....yes, the other Sheen...Charlie's brother - actually Emilio was famous before Charlie....loved him in the Breakfast Club.  So, I'm following a number of celebrity's including Emilio, Charlie, and it's fun....now of course, they only tweet what they want you to know....like things mostly relating to websites they would like you to visit and promotional information...however, there is something to be said for getting a message from a "Star".....oh, how we love our "Stars"......quite a phenomenon ...when you think about it.....actually a little scary...but it has been that way since the beginning of time....everyone always wanted to be associated or know about those who had the money, the power, the class, and/or the looks/charisma..... so I guess we all aren't so different....it's just that we have access to so many more ways to invade a person's privacy....not something anyone should take lightly.  Twitter and Facebook encourage the peeper in all of us.....not something my grandmother would be happy about...but then again, there are so many things she doesn't get when it comes to why we have to know everything about what is happening now and who it is happening to...now - regardless of where we live or how it impacts or does not impact us.  Oh, well.....I'm a peeper tweeter freak...and I am encouraged to be one.   One of these blogs I'll get back to talking about my writing.  I did submit my story last night....I'll let you know when it gets published.  I like it much better than my last.  With each new story...I just keep getting better and better.....if I dont' believe in myself....like, who will...right?

Cubicles

Last night there were no dreams...just sleep...and there really is something to be said for that.  So, today I'm at work and writing my blog before I get started.  It's great to have a job where you have an office with a door.....everyone needs a little privacy to update their blog, take a power nap, and/or just make a quick wardrobe adjustment.  For those in cubicles....I feel for you....I was part of a cubicle city too at one point and I must say...listening to the guy in the next cubby cut his nails was something I will never forget.....or just knowing I had to whisper and that people were straining to hear what I said....that made me crazy.  Anyway, I think companies today are stupid for having cubicles.....either put people in an open area where they can actually interact or put them in offices - interior ones are fine.  It makes for a very hostile environment - these cubicles.  Well......enough about that.  Tonight, I will finish my first paranormal story - the first of many I hope.  Gotta go....someone is a knocking on my door!